You are bound to make some mistakes when it comes to attracting and dating beautiful women. For one, most guys are really intimidated by the thought of even approaching a good looking woman, and when they do, their first reaction is usually to “suck up” to her and tell her how great she is in every which way that they can. Of course, by doing this, you make it OBVIOUS to her that she is out of your league, and you immediately make a disconnection, instead of making a connection.

When you communicate to a woman that you feel she is out of your league, even if you do it through your actions and not your words, you automatically make it a lot harder on yourself. Now, as guys, we are pretty much conditioned to believe that you are not going to end up with a beautiful woman unless you are rich or famous or handsome enough to be a male model.

While it is definitely true that all of these things can make it a lot easier for you to attract and date beautiful women, none of them are deal breakers that will put beautiful women out of your reach. There are lots of really average guys that learn how easy it can be to attract and date gorgeous women, and you can too!

Here are some common mistakes that guys make when they are around beautiful women that make it almost IMPOSSIBLE to have any chance of dating women like that:

1. Most guys will immediately take the position of needing to win her approval.

And they will do this by trying to qualify themselves to her. They do things like give her compliment after compliment, hoping that she will be so flattered by them, that she will feel like she has to give them a chance. Or, they will take the position of trying to buy her things and “spoil” her, thinking that she will feel as though he has to be the right guy if he would do all of these things.

The problem is, none of these behaviors build attraction, and they do nothing to make YOU appear to be a guy that SHE wants to be with. They are really just forms of manipulation, and they do not make her FEEL attracted to you. Sure, she might like to hear those compliments and receive those gifts, but do they make her want to date you? Probably not.

2. They will attempt to become her friend, and in the process, eliminate themselves from the chance of dating her.

This is one of the hardest concepts for most men to grasp, and that is, by trying to be her friend, you end up shutting yourself out of the chance of being more. See, most women have an instinctive “rule” of not messing up friendships with guys by making it into something more. Women are a little more knowledgeable on the fact that friendships can easily become ruined by dating, and so they are less likely to see this as a possibility.

Also, when you position yourself as a friend in her life, you are going to start to act in a way that just kills attraction. The longer that you act like this, the deeper you end up in the friend zone, and the further away you get from being able to date her.

3. They don’t BELIEVE that they could ever have a chance with a beautiful woman.

I see this all of the time, especially when I hang out with old friends of mine and we are at a club that is filled with good looking women. I’ll see one of my buddies checking a girl out, and I will kind of nudge them along to go up to her. And most of the time, the initial reaction that they have is that they just don’t have a chance with a girl like that. They really believe that some women are just too attractive for them to even have a chance at getting a date with her.

As long as you think this way, you are going to get that result. See, if you don’t believe that you can date and attract beautiful women, you will NEVER go up to her with the attitude that you can make her feel attracted to you.